Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Time to plan seriously...

What exactly do women want from men? Honestly, as a woman I am as confused as the men are. We wanted equally of genders, the right to vote, levelled playing field, financial and education equality. We've been given them all, never mind it was given with much grudges on the part of man. We've been given what we asked for - to be treated equally. But we contradict ourselves when we want man to treat us as women, to give us specialty. Ironic.

We've blindly gone so far into the battle of gender equality we lost ourselves and confused everyone. It is perhaps time for us women to stop and ask ourselves what exactly do we want. We can never deny the primitive roles of man and woman play in procreation. Ultimately and crudely speaking procreation governed a lot of our actions and behaviours today. Everything boils down to procreation no matter many complex terms we try and coil to name and explain our actions and the dynamics between man and woman. Lets face with bluntly, that is the ultimate aim of a species isnt it? We humans just happen to have a higher order of intelligence and hence things get complicated with emotions and thriving to create a "better" environment.

That invisible ceiling which exist in the workplace is real and we have to face it. It never meant to be totally equal. Our fingers aint equal anyway. So sisters, lets face it and start planning for urself. You cant depend on any one or any man (cant trust them totally). Marrying a rich man aint a ticket to financial safe-land, neither is it a fool-proof insurance policy. Even the best GDIs gals will tell you that its just part of the ticket. At the end of the day, dont be dumb and plan ur own nest egg because women are always on the losing end in a failed marriage (successful GDIs not counted alright).

Well... its about time i get my ass warmed and plan my own nest egg and insurance net. I've been putting it on hold for too long. Its not too late yet I hope. Discipline discipline discipline. Time to pad my ass before its too late. If you think i'm planning to jump on the bandwagon of GDI, no i'm not. I prefer making my nest. Anyway, come on my gals, stop living in fairy tale and stop being so dumb.

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